Tall girl dating a shorter guy
You were born 2 minutes ago but you’re already 22 inches long. You’re already taller than all your little friends at school but for some reason it doesn’t bother you. You hate boys and being taller than all of them is very practical. You’re at your first party and you think it’s gonna be the time of your life but the DJ decides to put slow music on for 30 minutes.
All you meet is the 5’6 guy working at the coffee shop at the corner of your street who tells you every morning: “Come here mama come make me your toy boy”.
When I look at the search engine terms in my stats, the ones some young girls typed before landing on my blog, you wouldn’t believe how many times I see things like “I’m too tall will I ever find a boyfriend” or “Do guys like very tall girls”. But if only these young girls could walk into my shoes for only one second, they would stop worrying. Love knows no bounds, love knows no inches, love knows nothing but love.
Oh you still have these moments when you try to imagine that he’s taller than you. He has been for many years and although I sometimes – secretly – wish they would, I don’t think things will change anytime soon. It took me a while to get over feeling like a football player (click to read my story) and dreaming of someone who would make me feel petite and delicate, but I’ve learned to have other priorities, like having someone who makes me feel loved and important.
That's not to say that dating shorter men won't invite the occasional awkward moment.
Societal stereotypes dictate that in heterosexual romantic partnerships, a man should be bigger and taller than his female partner.
Well yes ladies, my man is an inch AND A HALF shorter than me.
We all have fallen prey to the relationship check list—perfect teeth, thick hair, 6 feet or taller.
There you watch romantic movies and spend your time on the internet typing the names of actors you fantasize about to know if they are taller than you – just in case you would meet one someday. Chrissy Teigan is taller than husband John Legend, Helen Lasichanh is taller than her musician husband, Pharrell, and model Coco Rocha is much taller than her husband James Conran.(Check out more celebrity women who are taller than their men on )The fact is, the decision to wear heels should hinge solely on your own comfort with the idea, not on the comfort of the guy you're dating. God seems to be busy because the only guy who’s interested in you is 5’5 and despite him being cute, intelligent, kind, gallant and funny, you don’t give a sh*t. You keep on praying for the perfect man to come, but when he shows up you pull out your measuring tape and you go back home. Who would have figured the world would stop on the day you meet that amazing, smart, talented, genuine, sweet, funny, brave, perfect…
It’s been 3 years already since you started praying for a taller boyfriend. All of your friends want you to meet all the tall guys they encounter (click to read comic about it). Unfortunately height and intelligence are not correlated.
A stacked or kitten heel will still give your legs a bit of length, but won't boost you up Keep this in mind: There are so many gorgeous, confident, powerful and successful women who happily and boldly date men who are shorter.